Some things are learned the hard way. Who to tell about what and when, is one of those things, I’ve had to learn to refrain myself from. I have always been an open and honest woman, who likes sharing and believes in mutual support of living our dreams. However, I have also encountered disbelief, negativity, suspicion and a lot of envy. And even some real lies about me.

To make things happen, does more so, when we voice our strive to improve, and start doing something, out loud. However, we need to find a true confidante. A person, who can be confidential and non-judgmental. It’s not without instilling courage, the word encouraging became. The best support, I’ve found, is from people who already have achieved many similar goals before me and thus don’t need to feel intimidated or threatened. A professional coach, can also be such a person, that both challenges you for a reality-check, and supports you all the way through.

Keeping things close to my chest, enables me to cultivate love and proper care; writing it down in my journal until.