In order to easier define, develop and cultivate love in its broadest sense, I’ve come up with various aspects that I think constitute, and are necessary to foster, healthy relationships. These are described with various examples in my books and are thought to also be the foundation for discussions in sacred circles in groups, that I aim to host at Telluselle Living Center.

What I refer to as, the keys to paradise, are:

Respect, Honesty, Integrity, Acceptance, Trust, Forgiveness, Gratitude, Happiness, Compassion, Kindness, Care, Tenderness, Softening Ego, Humility, Courage, Validation, Desire, Joy, Light, Consciousness, Hospitality, Dialogue

What I refer to as, the feathers of the eagle, are:

Safety, Freedom, Protection, Strength, Knowledge, Power, Authority, Provision, Fairness, Willingness, Determination, Action and Responsibility

What I refer to as, the pearls of wisdom, are:

Vulnerability, Flow, Presence, Play, Softness, Touch, Support, Needs, Energy, Affection, Trust, Compliments, Simplicity, Borders, Serenity, Wellness, Purpose and Faith

The question is what these mean to you? Which are your examples? How can we increase these aspects in our own relationships, our communities and eventually society? Which aspects would you consider important when you’re relating to others? Are some more important between friends, than between spouses or between colleagues?